I wrote all about my little peanut’s fourth month of life last week, but haven’t given you a peek into month four of my postpartum journey!
HORMONES: The hormone change around 3 months definitely is a big one and I’ve been experiencing the effects of it ever since. First off, I knew women started to lose their hair around month three — but the sheer amount of hair is ridiculous! I guess the locks are making up for lost time since I barely lost my normal amount during pregnancy. The other noticeable change due to hormones is the amount of which I need to pump. That coupled with Xander leading my supply, have left me able to hardly need to pump at all! Hip hip hooray! I now might pump once a day if Xander sleeps a nice chunk at night. I end up waking due to discomfort and keep my pump available in the vanity area of our bedroom.
MILK MILK MILK: Staying on the topic of breast milk, we recently discussed that my milk is high in lipase. The older milk seems to have an even higher content of it because some of the expressed milk contains colostrum (which is higher in fat) and it has also had a longer time in the freezer to break down. Milk high in lipase isn’t a bad thing, in fact, the lipase enzyme breaks down lipids. This means the baby can digest the milk easier. However, with this comes potentially unacceptable milk for the baby. The milk gives off a slight metallically smell and makes the milk not as sweet. You should have seen the look on Xander’s face when we gave him the bottle of unthawed frozen milk that was high in lipase! Poor thing! We’ve now figured out that we can mix the unthawed frozen milk with some freshly pumped milk that is acceptable to Xander’s palate. Xander doesn’t receive too many bottles but it’s nice to have John feed him sometimes and as well as the conveniency of bringing a bottle in public (although, I’m getting much better nursing in public!)
Because of the extensive amount of breast milk that I do have in the freezer and the fear of how are we going to get through it all before it expires (we won’t), I’ve decided to become a milk donor. I’m currently going through the application process and still need to have my blood work done. I’ll be donating milk to the WakeMed Mother’s Milk Bank in Raleigh, North Carolina. You can expect a full post on the process of becoming a milk donor and other fun tidbits!
EXERCISE: Exercise is going (dare I say) great! Ever since Xander turned 4 months old, John and I have been running together with little man in the jogging stroller. Half the time he just falls asleep and doesn’t even know what we’re doing. There is a pretty lake nearby with a 1.25 mile paved loop that we go on. Guess how many loops I am up to!? THREE!!! Just shy of 4 miles people! I’m stoked that I’m progressing that quickly, especially when we’ve only been able to run 1-2 times a week so far. I need to start thinking about my training plan for the Army Ten Miler in October though! I’m SO excited! I’m running it with my friend Lauren, who is the wife of John’s work BFF. We really hit it off and I think we’re planning on sticking together during the whole race as well! We’ll be doing some test long runs to make sure our running styles jive!
Aside from running, my in-home workouts are thriving!
BODY CHANGES: In addition to the copious amounts of hair I’m losing, there have been a few other body changes. I’m about 3-4 pounds below my pre-pregnancy weight, but my body still isn’t in nearly as good of shape. My stomach is firming up, slowly but surely, and my breast size has decreased just a bit (thank goodness). There’s still a long way to go in the chest department, but due to nursing, I’m sure this won’t be quick. It’s nice to see a small decrease because it has made a few more of my dresses fit. And if someone tells me, “that must be a nice problem to have” one more time, I’m gonna slap ’em….mmmkay?
Overall I’m so pleased with how my postpartum body is doing. My goals right now are increase my running endurance and focus on getting stronger.
MOM STUFF: I get asked questions like: “How do you like being a mom?” and “It is everything you thought it would be?” The short answers are I love it and yes. Truthfully, I’ve always felt like I’d be an awesome mom and now that I am one, I’m pretty sure I am. I know, I’m so modest. But seriously, being a mom comes naturally to me. Sure there are days that I’m exhausted. Sure there are days that I’m bored. But taking care of Xander is the best. If you haven’t figured it out by now, I am staying a stay-at-mom and have some online gigs on the side. John and I have always been on the same page about how we’d like to raise a family and we are willing to live on one salary to have me stay at home.